Your relationship's backup brain

Less reminding.
More relating.

Meet Theo. He remembers what matters, helps with hard conversations, plans thoughtful moments, shares the mental load, and keeps life from slipping through the cracks.

Free to start. Theo remembers so you don't have to.

Theo

Private conversation

My anniversary is next month and I have no idea what to plan.

I remember Maya loves Italian food, small boutique hotels, and experiences more than physical gifts. Want me to put together three anniversary options under $500?

Theo remembers

You shouldn't have to remember everything.

Important enough to remember. Not important enough to occupy brain space.

Anniversary

October 14

Favorite flowers

Peonies

Favorite restaurant

Cotogna

Gift preference

Experiences over things

Kids

Olivia, 8 · Jack, 5

Date-night budget

$250

Babysitter

Sarah

Weekends

Outdoors

Hard conversations

Before you send that text… ask Theo.

Paste the message. Theo tells you what it may really be about, what to avoid, and gives you a reply you'd actually send.

Message from Maya

"You said you were going to take care of this. Why do I have to keep reminding you?"

Theo reads it

This sounds less like frustration about this one task and more like frustration about carrying the responsibility for remembering it.

Suggested reply

"You're right. You shouldn't have to keep reminding me. I said I'd handle it and I didn't. I'm going to take care of it now."

Mental load

Stop making one person the household project manager.

Theo can assign, remind and track responsibilities — so the invisible work becomes visible, not a scorecard.

School pickupShared
Dog groomerAlex
GroceriesMaya
BillsAlex
Birthday giftsTheo
Summer campMaya
House maintenanceAlex
Date nightTheo
Doctor appointmentsShared
Thoughtful moments

Thoughtful shouldn't require a project plan.

Tell Theo the occasion and the budget. He handles the rest — dinner, activity, flowers, babysitter.

Friday Anniversary Plan

Dinner
Italian restaurant
Activity
Couples cooking class
Flowers
Peonies
Babysitter
6–11 PM
Make It Happen
Privacy

Your relationship is private. Keep it that way.

  • Private Theo conversations stay private.
  • Shared memories require explicit sharing.
  • We never sell relationship conversations.
  • No advertising based on private conversations.
  • You control every stored memory.
  • Edit or delete anything, anytime.

One less thing floating around your head.

Tell Theo one thing you never want to forget about your partner. He'll take it from there.